"every word, every touch heals . . ." yes. but also, I've grown up since then, because of then. What he wrote made me smile, but it is less powerful because it is now, and the now me understands more. I can see more clearly now. I'm not as blinded as I was before. I have more control over myself now. And because I am aware, I know that I am not quite as bad as she has brought up the "obsession" again . . . I know I am not obsessed now. And that is a good thing.