I need to tell him . . .
I've been mentally broken up with him for at least a week. I don't think about him unless he texts me, or I see something he might like. some of the conversations I've had with my ex are edging on flirting and I don't feel guilty because mentally I'm single. I dont want to ghost him, but at the same time, having to talk him through his reactions is not appealing to me at the moment. (Well, unless he starts hating me and shuts down himself) but I know I will answer if he calls, and I know I'd put a limit on it if it started impacting me too badly (just like last time) I'm scared to talk to him, but it's not fair to him for him to continue thinking things are how they were.